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Photo Credit to Fumes |
Last week (3/31) we had our second homestay at a local Maasai boma. Since I was better prepared from Tanzania’s homestay I felt ready the 2
nd time around. I heard we could be doing anything from sitting inside the boma all day, to cooking, making jewelry, collecting water or firewood, or building a boma. Building or patching up a boma consists basically of putting cow manure on the side of the house. Yeah this was the one thing that I was hoping not to do. Anyway I was paired up with Fumika, I call her Fumes and I was ready to go. Harrison dropped me and several other students off at the same boma around 10:30 that morning after classes. We each were met by our mamas and was led inside their boma. The first thing I noticed (though I knew this was coming) was the language barrier. I speak kidogo (little) Swahili but these mamas only spoke Maasai, their tribal language. I knew TaKwyena the Maasai greeting for hello and my mama instantly smiled. I can’t remember her name although she told me several times so I called her mama for the rest of the day. She took Fumes and I inside her home and we sat around for a little while as I met her son and son’s friend (again I forget names, they were Maasai names so don’t blame me). We were then given buckets and directed to outside the boma to start collecting dirt. 10 minutes in and we were getting down and dirty. As I scooped hot dirt into the bucket with my hands I was thinking at least I don’t have to touch cow poop. We carried the buckets back to the boma and dumped them on this huge pile of cow manure. Still at least I wasn’t touching it. We made about several trips collecting dirt outside and then piling it on top of the pile. Finally on our last trip we dumped the buckets as I wiped my hands on my skirt thinking it was over. Then my mama stuck her hands in the pile and starting mixing the dirt in.
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Partly finished- Fumes and Mama |
I stood there watching, mouth agape when she grabbed Fumes’ hand and shoved it in the pile with her. Fumes look like she was gonna have a panic attack, I think we were the last people who wanted to do this activity together as I watched Fumes in shock while she was trying not to look. I took her watch off for her before it was covered in manure and tied it to her camera bag. Then the son comes over with water to help soften the pile and grabs my hand and takes off my watch and jewelry and shoves my hands in there too. I thought I was gonna gag hot mushy manure all up in my fingernails and up to elbows in poop. I tried not to think about it as we mixed the pile and more water was added. Eventually probably about half-hour later it wasn’t starting to feel like cow manure, just …something else. We put the poop in buckets and carried it over to the boma where we started slamming it into the cracks and spreading it on the side of the house patching it up. After a while it became a rhythm and didn’t feel so bad as other mamas came to help me. They kept saying Ohh, sadai ohh, ohh, which I took to mean as good, good, as we spread the poop across the wall. Fumes looked at me and went “uh, Dana you got some on your nose.” Oh great as I tried to wipe it off with my forearm. She giggled and said “Well now its on your forehead.” I just ended it leaving it there, but as I look back it now it was quite an experience and pretty funny. In the end it felt really good and proud of myself that I helped fixed up their house.
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Carrying water on our heads..Maasai style! |
When we finished part of the wall and washed our hands the son then decided to take us to see the baby donkey outside. We walked around and took pictures of the beautiful landscape. Then he showed us the puppies, they were adorable I wanted to take one home, as Fumes and I sat and played with the puppies till lunch. At noon we were told to go back inside the boma where we sat and helped wash dishes and cook. First we made chai and then help cook ugali and chop cabbage for lunch. Let me mention how much everyone loves pictures here. As we cooked the chai the son kept asking to take pictures, pictures of me pouring the milk into the pot, stirring ugali, chopping tomatoes and more. Again like the last homestay we brought bags of food and a jerrycan of water to cook with. I ended up serving everyone in the boma lunch and then washed their dishes. I met mama’s daughter Jennifer and she spoke English, (the son did too) and Jennifer and I chatted for a while. After a nice lunch mama told us, or basically we charaded that it was time to collect water. We gather up buckets and walked about a little over half a mile to the river, swinging empty buckets over our shoulders. Mama went into the river to fill up our buckets. She then tied them to a piece of fabric and placed them on our heads. Oh man this was already giving me a headache and we haven’t even left yet. Mama laughed as I struggled to balance it on my head and my back and we started walking back, running into the other SFS students on their way to collect their own water. I have a whole new appreciation for the women who carry everything on their heads, I don’t understand how they do it. My neck was killing me by the time we reached the boma. Mama then sat us outside the house in the shade. This was rest time for the Maasai since it’s the hottest part of the day. We sat for a while in silence; again because of the language barrier since I only know a few Maasai words staying in the shade out of the sun. Mama then started admiring all my friendship bracelets and my beads. Then I remembered I brought some with me. I tried to charade to her if she wanted to make some, but I just ended up breaking out my beads. Mama loved it. She made a bracelet and her daughter even joined. She then decided to make me a necklace out of my jewelry which she was very proud of and placed around my head. After arts & crafts we still were sitting around for a while, and dranking more chai while mama played with my hands. She then figured she wanted to make me a Maasai ring. I loved it! I wish we made our own jewelry together but Tara said we have an opportunity to make Maasai bracelets later on. After sitting for a few hours we walked to collect some wood.
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Chopping firewood |
Mama was such a badass carrying her Machete around chopping wood. She was handing pieces to me which I threw in a pile to carry back. Oh yeah and I forgot to mention she loved pictures, so we documented the whole thing. After carrying the wood back, not on our heads this time we placed it next to the boma. Then came time for more sitting around. I was getting tired sitting so I decided to walk around. I tried to coo a baby goat into coming to me, but mama grabbed him from behind and shoved him in my lap. I can now say I held a baby goat on my lap. It was adorable, me and Fumes decided baby goats are the greatest. Then out of the corner of my eye the puppies were out and playing. So I dashed over to them and rolled around till Harrison pulled up signaling it was time to leave. As we grabbed our backpacks, took goodbye pictures and hugged it was finally time to leave. I picked up a puppy and started to walk away. Yes I was really planning on convincing Harrison to let us get a camp dog. Showing him how cute it was he was like haraka twende (hurry, lets go). Yeah, we both really wanted to leave with the dog, I called him bully because he bit and bullied all the others, but I knew he would chase away aalllll the baboons at KBC. But sadly I had to leave the dog and return to the car. The whole way Harrison and I chatted how we could convince Moses, the SFS director to get a camp dog somehow. But by the end of the day despite the language barriers I really did love my homestay and many smiles and laughs were shared all afternoon. Although I can’t say which homestay I liked better, each was unique in there own culturally different way. I felt like I really did bond closely with my Maasai mama because the next day when we went to visit another boma as a big group I saw my mama there. As we were shaking hands with the other mamas, she say me and her eyes lit up and gave me the biggest hug ever! And yeah and she was still wearing the bracelet we made yesterday and I had on her ring. It's our very own special bond. THE END.